Sinclair Sexsmith enjoys whiskey, topping, the serial comma, political activism, and has been known to get on her knees in order to fix the strappy sandals of a queer femme. She lives in New York City.

Mr. Sexsmith's online writing and photography projects such as Queer Eye Candy and Top Hot Butches explore queer sexuality, gender theory, butch/femme identity, and interpersonal relationships. She was named 2008’s #1 Top Sex Blogger for Sugarbutch Chronicles: The Sex, Gender, and Relationship Adventures of a Kinky Queer Butch Top at sugarbutch.net, and received both the Best Lesbian Gender Bender Blog and the Best Lesbian Sex/Erotica Blog awards from The Lesbian Lifestyle in 2009.

Her writing can be found in various anthologies, including the Best Lesbian Erotica series and in Visible: A Femmethology volume two.

Featured in the New York City Sex Blog Calendar benefiting Sex Work Awareness in 2009 and 2010 as a pin-up, Sinclair has also written for The Lesbian Lifestyle, Eden Fantasys, Carnal Nation’s Perv Panel, Mamba Girl, and Sappho’s Girls in the CyberDyke Network. She is starting a regular column on Radical Masculinity for Carnal Nation.

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Throughout the country, from grassroots organizations to community colleges to Ivy League universities, Sinclair has done performances and workshops on gender and sexuality. She holds degrees in both creative writing and gender studies. Her workshop and speaker offerings include:

• F*cking with Gender: An interactive workshop on gender expression, identities, labels, transcending the mutually exclusive binaries, queer culture, and hot sweaty sex.
• How To Be Butch: the Art of Gentlemanliness
• Butch/Femme Relationships: How to Make Love Stay
• Combating Lesbian Bed Death: How to Keep the Passion in Long Term Relationships
• Gendering Power: How to spice up your role play